Dear anonymous student, we have gotten your question through an email but it is not showing up on the website, but we are still happy to answer your question. Weight doesn't define who you are as a person, what defines you is the actions you take. Speaking up is a really hard thing to do, but it will show everyone who is picking on you that you are brave. It will also make you feel a lot better about yourself. Your friends might not know that what they are saying is hurting you. If you speak up to them then they will know exactly how you feel. I want to tell you one of my favorite quotes from one of my favorite songs. "Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out, honestly I wanna see you be brave." - Sara Bareilles. It has helped me through a lot and it gives me confidence. The key to happiness is having self confidence and being able to say whats on your mind. I hope this advise will help you and remember that size doesn't matter, there is so much more to people than size or looks and everyone can do amazing things no matter what they look like. :)
Dear BTSP, I wanted your advice on what to do with a problem I've been having. I often post pictures on Facebook of important events, like parties and school dances. But if I post a picture of me and the guy I like together, my friends put rude comments on it. Most of the time, they try to make me admit that I like him. I try to shrug it off by leaving a comment like "yeah, right! ;)" as if they are just being sarcastic. I don't know what to do! Sincerely, Picture Un-Perfect. Dear Picture Un-Perfect,
I'm sorry to hear that your friends have been doing this, my friends used to do it too. I used to do the same thing that you did and just shrug it off, but I learned that they won't stop if you keep doing that. They may not know that it's bothering you so they keep doing it. Try to tell your friends that you don't want him to know you like him, everyone should have the choice of telling their crush that they like him on their own. If you have a crush on anyone after him then it might be a good idea to wait a while before you tell your friends (if you want too). If you wait to tell them then you can have time to decide if you want to tell him yourself or not, also you will have time to decide if you trust your friends enough to know or not. I hope your friends will understand and I'm happy to help you. If you need anymore advice feel free to send another advice submission. :) Hey, BTSP! So, I was wondering how to block an account on Facebook. My mom just let me make an account, but I want it to remain privet. Can you post a tutorial on your blog? Thanks! Yours truly, Facebook Newbie. P.S. Hey, that rhymes! :D Dear Facebook Newbie,
Well, welcome to Facebook! We invite you to like our page here! But anyways, here is our advice: Keep your profile in PRIVATE mode at all times. Never send or except a friend request to anyone you don't know. To keep your info private follow these steps: On the upper-right hand corner of Facebook, click on your name. After that you should be on your wall. In the upper left corner there is a button next to your name that looks like a lock. When you click on that it will give you privacy options, you can change things like who can see your Facebook post, who can contact you, how you can get people to stop bothering you, and there is an option for see more settings so you can make your profile more private. If you click on how to stop people from bothering you it will ask you to type the persons name in so you can block them. When you block them they can't see anything you post and you can't see anything they post, also they cannot send you messages. If you still have questions you can send us another advice submission. I hope this information helped you! :) We will have posts on advice soon! But before we can give advice, you have to ask for it! ;) Send us your questions by clicking the button below!
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